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I'm not going to 00:08:03.840 --> 00:08:05.589 align:start position:0% judgment up to God. I'm not going to judge<00:08:04.080> myself. 00:08:05.589 --> 00:08:05.599 align:start position:0% judge myself. 00:08:05.599 --> 00:08:07.749 align:start position:0% judge myself. I'm<00:08:05.759> not<00:08:05.919> going<00:08:06.000> to<00:08:06.160> judge<00:08:06.400> my<00:08:06.560> neighbor.<00:08:07.520> I'm 00:08:07.749 --> 00:08:07.759 align:start position:0% I'm not going to judge my neighbor. I'm 00:08:07.759 --> 00:08:08.869 align:start position:0% I'm not going to judge my neighbor. I'm not<00:08:07.840> going<00:08:07.919> to<00:08:08.000> judge<00:08:08.240> my<00:08:08.400> enemy.<00:08:08.720> I'm<00:08:08.800> going 00:08:08.869 --> 00:08:08.879 align:start position:0% not going to judge my enemy. I'm going 00:08:08.879 --> 00:08:12.710 align:start position:0% not going to judge my enemy. 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A lot of people struggle with 00:12:05.600 --> 00:12:09.670 align:start position:0% right? A lot of people struggle with trust.<00:12:06.079> Can<00:12:06.240> I<00:12:06.399> trust<00:12:06.720> you? 00:12:09.670 --> 00:12:09.680 align:start position:0% trust. Can I trust you? 00:12:09.680 --> 00:12:13.990 align:start position:0% trust. Can I trust you? 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So, you 00:12:36.800 --> 00:12:39.509 align:start position:0% then they don't do it, right? So, you know,<00:12:36.959> you<00:12:37.200> say, 00:12:39.509 --> 00:12:39.519 align:start position:0% know, you say, 00:12:39.519 --> 00:12:42.069 align:start position:0% know, you say, I<00:12:39.680> really<00:12:39.920> need<00:12:40.000> to<00:12:40.160> stop<00:12:40.399> smoking<00:12:41.519> or<00:12:41.920> I 00:12:42.069 --> 00:12:42.079 align:start position:0% I really need to stop smoking or I 00:12:42.079 --> 00:12:43.350 align:start position:0% I really need to stop smoking or I really<00:12:42.320> need<00:12:42.399> to<00:12:42.639> I<00:12:42.800> really<00:12:42.959> need<00:12:43.120> to<00:12:43.200> clean 00:12:43.350 --> 00:12:43.360 align:start position:0% really need to I really need to clean 00:12:43.360 --> 00:12:46.150 align:start position:0% really need to I really need to clean the<00:12:43.600> do<00:12:43.760> the<00:12:43.920> dishes. 00:12:46.150 --> 00:12:46.160 align:start position:0% the do the dishes. 00:12:46.160 --> 00:12:47.670 align:start position:0% the do the dishes. 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How this 00:14:42.720 --> 00:14:47.189 align:start position:0% and how this shapes the mind. How this shapes<00:14:43.040> perception<00:14:43.680> or<00:14:43.920> clarity 00:14:47.189 --> 00:14:47.199 align:start position:0% 00:14:47.199 --> 00:14:49.990 align:start position:0% in<00:14:47.519> perceiving<00:14:48.560> experiences,<00:14:49.519> perceiving 00:14:49.990 --> 00:14:50.000 align:start position:0% in perceiving experiences, perceiving 00:14:50.000 --> 00:14:54.150 align:start position:0% in perceiving experiences, perceiving the<00:14:50.240> world,<00:14:50.959> modeling<00:14:51.360> the<00:14:51.600> world. 00:14:54.150 --> 00:14:54.160 align:start position:0% the world, modeling the world. 00:14:54.160 --> 00:14:58.470 align:start position:0% the world, modeling the world. Right?<00:14:54.480> The<00:14:54.720> words<00:14:55.040> and<00:14:55.360> the<00:14:55.519> filters 00:14:58.470 --> 00:14:58.480 align:start position:0% Right? 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Clare audience 00:15:21.595 --> 00:15:22.310 align:start position:0% sentence senses, right? Clare audience [snorts] 00:15:22.310 --> 00:15:22.320 align:start position:0% [snorts] 00:15:22.320 --> 00:15:24.550 align:start position:0% [snorts] uh<00:15:22.480> cla<00:15:22.880> cognizance<00:15:23.519> clare<00:15:23.839> sentience<00:15:24.399> I'm 00:15:24.550 --> 00:15:24.560 align:start position:0% uh cla cognizance clare sentience I'm 00:15:24.560 --> 00:15:26.389 align:start position:0% uh cla cognizance clare sentience I'm reading 00:15:26.389 --> 00:15:26.399 align:start position:0% reading 00:15:26.399 --> 00:15:29.750 align:start position:0% reading um<00:15:27.440> I'm<00:15:27.680> partially<00:15:28.160> reading<00:15:28.399> these<00:15:28.720> because 00:15:29.750 --> 00:15:29.760 align:start position:0% um I'm partially reading these because 00:15:29.760 --> 00:15:31.670 align:start position:0% um I'm partially reading these because uh<00:15:30.079> first<00:15:30.240> of<00:15:30.320> all<00:15:30.560> what<00:15:30.720> does<00:15:30.800> cla<00:15:31.199> mean?<00:15:31.440> It 00:15:31.670 --> 00:15:31.680 align:start position:0% uh first of all what does cla mean? It 00:15:31.680 --> 00:15:35.269 align:start position:0% uh first of all what does cla mean? It means<00:15:31.920> clear<00:15:32.560> clarity<00:15:33.920> right<00:15:34.240> clear<00:15:34.560> vision 00:15:35.269 --> 00:15:35.279 align:start position:0% means clear clarity right clear vision 00:15:35.279 --> 00:15:38.230 align:start position:0% means clear clarity right clear vision clear<00:15:35.600> hearing<00:15:37.040> clear<00:15:37.360> knowing<00:15:37.920> clear 00:15:38.230 --> 00:15:38.240 align:start position:0% clear hearing clear knowing clear 00:15:38.240 --> 00:15:40.870 align:start position:0% clear hearing clear knowing clear feeling 00:15:40.870 --> 00:15:40.880 align:start position:0% feeling 00:15:40.880 --> 00:15:42.470 align:start position:0% feeling but<00:15:41.120> they're<00:15:41.360> all<00:15:41.519> really<00:15:41.680> one.<00:15:42.000> It's<00:15:42.240> about 00:15:42.470 --> 00:15:42.480 align:start position:0% but they're all really one. It's about 00:15:42.480 --> 00:15:44.470 align:start position:0% but they're all really one. It's about clarity, 00:15:44.470 --> 00:15:44.480 align:start position:0% clarity, 00:15:44.480 --> 00:15:48.550 align:start position:0% clarity, right?<00:15:45.199> And<00:15:45.440> so<00:15:46.560> you<00:15:46.720> know<00:15:47.199> a<00:15:47.440> person<00:15:48.240> who's 00:15:48.550 --> 00:15:48.560 align:start position:0% right? And so you know a person who's 00:15:48.560 --> 00:15:51.910 align:start position:0% right? And so you know a person who's clairvoyant<00:15:50.000> or<00:15:50.160> or<00:15:50.639> clare<00:15:51.040> cognizant<00:15:51.680> let's 00:15:51.910 --> 00:15:51.920 align:start position:0% clairvoyant or or clare cognizant let's 00:15:51.920 --> 00:15:55.829 align:start position:0% clairvoyant or or clare cognizant let's say<00:15:52.959> is<00:15:53.199> this<00:15:53.440> some<00:15:54.639> mystical<00:15:55.360> magical 00:15:55.829 --> 00:15:55.839 align:start position:0% say is this some mystical magical 00:15:55.839 --> 00:15:59.990 align:start position:0% say is this some mystical magical superhuman<00:15:56.480> power<00:15:56.800> are<00:15:56.959> they<00:15:57.120> a<00:15:57.279> witch<00:15:58.240> right 00:15:59.990 --> 00:16:00.000 align:start position:0% superhuman power are they a witch right 00:16:00.000 --> 00:16:03.829 align:start position:0% superhuman power are they a witch right no<00:16:00.320> this<00:16:00.480> is<00:16:00.639> something<00:16:00.880> that<00:16:01.120> all<00:16:01.360> of<00:16:01.440> us<00:16:01.759> have 00:16:03.829 --> 00:16:03.839 align:start position:0% no this is something that all of us have 00:16:03.839 --> 00:16:07.269 align:start position:0% no this is something that all of us have all<00:16:04.000> of<00:16:04.160> us<00:16:04.399> can<00:16:05.199> experience<00:16:05.839> and<00:16:06.160> see<00:16:06.959> far 00:16:07.269 --> 00:16:07.279 align:start position:0% all of us can experience and see far 00:16:07.279 --> 00:16:10.949 align:start position:0% all of us can experience and see far more<00:16:07.920> than<00:16:08.639> we<00:16:08.880> typically<00:16:09.360> do<00:16:10.560> because<00:16:10.800> of 00:16:10.949 --> 00:16:10.959 align:start position:0% more than we typically do because of 00:16:10.959 --> 00:16:13.189 align:start position:0% more than we typically do because of what<00:16:11.120> I<00:16:11.360> talked<00:16:11.600> about<00:16:11.759> in<00:16:12.079> last<00:16:12.320> video<00:16:12.639> of<00:16:12.800> of 00:16:13.189 --> 00:16:13.199 align:start position:0% what I talked about in last video of of 00:16:13.199 --> 00:16:16.949 align:start position:0% what I talked about in last video of of words<00:16:13.680> and<00:16:14.079> our<00:16:14.880> our<00:16:15.279> mind<00:16:16.240> the<00:16:16.399> way<00:16:16.560> our<00:16:16.720> mind 00:16:16.949 --> 00:16:16.959 align:start position:0% words and our our mind the way our mind 00:16:16.959 --> 00:16:19.269 align:start position:0% words and our our mind the way our mind develops<00:16:18.079> filtering<00:16:18.480> our<00:16:18.720> perception<00:16:19.040> of 00:16:19.269 --> 00:16:19.279 align:start position:0% develops filtering our perception of 00:16:19.279 --> 00:16:22.550 align:start position:0% develops filtering our perception of reality<00:16:20.560> and<00:16:20.800> this<00:16:20.959> is<00:16:21.120> this<00:16:21.360> is<00:16:21.839> a<00:16:22.000> a<00:16:22.240> law<00:16:22.399> of 00:16:22.550 --> 00:16:22.560 align:start position:0% reality and this is this is a a law of 00:16:22.560 --> 00:16:23.990 align:start position:0% reality and this is this is a a law of human<00:16:22.800> development.<00:16:23.279> This<00:16:23.440> happens<00:16:23.680> to<00:16:23.839> all 00:16:23.990 --> 00:16:24.000 align:start position:0% human development. This happens to all 00:16:24.000 --> 00:16:26.069 align:start position:0% human development. This happens to all of<00:16:24.079> us.<00:16:24.720> All<00:16:24.880> of<00:16:24.959> us<00:16:25.199> devel<00:16:25.600> all<00:16:25.600> all<00:16:25.680> of<00:16:25.759> us<00:16:25.839> who 00:16:26.069 --> 00:16:26.079 align:start position:0% of us. All of us devel all all of us who 00:16:26.079 --> 00:16:29.189 align:start position:0% of us. 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When the model 00:17:02.320 --> 00:17:04.470 align:start position:0% became our reality. 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I'm I 00:18:27.200 --> 00:18:31.830 align:start position:0% uh mystical traditions and so on. I'm I I<00:18:27.440> think<00:18:27.600> I'm<00:18:28.400> well<00:18:28.720> on<00:18:28.960> the<00:18:29.120> path<00:18:29.440> here. 00:18:31.830 --> 00:18:31.840 align:start position:0% I think I'm well on the path here. 00:18:31.840 --> 00:18:33.750 align:start position:0% I think I'm well on the path here. 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You do not have 00:19:07.600 --> 00:19:10.070 align:start position:0% between you and reality. You do not have these<00:19:07.840> filters<00:19:08.240> between<00:19:09.039> the<00:19:09.360> reality<00:19:09.760> that 00:19:10.070 --> 00:19:10.080 align:start position:0% these filters between the reality that 00:19:10.080 --> 00:19:12.870 align:start position:0% these filters between the reality that God<00:19:10.480> created.<00:19:11.840> And<00:19:12.000> if<00:19:12.160> you<00:19:12.400> believe<00:19:12.559> in<00:19:12.720> God 00:19:12.870 --> 00:19:12.880 align:start position:0% God created. And if you believe in God 00:19:12.880 --> 00:19:15.590 align:start position:0% God created. 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Right? 00:19:47.590 --> 00:19:47.600 align:start position:0% Right? 00:19:47.600 --> 00:19:49.510 align:start position:0% Right? 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I know when to be 00:20:33.280 --> 00:20:35.669 align:start position:0% effectively, right? I know when to be compassionate,<00:20:33.919> when<00:20:34.159> to<00:20:34.960> set<00:20:35.280> boundaries 00:20:35.669 --> 00:20:35.679 align:start position:0% compassionate, when to set boundaries 00:20:35.679 --> 00:20:39.029 align:start position:0% compassionate, when to set boundaries and<00:20:35.919> so<00:20:36.080> on, 00:20:39.029 --> 00:20:39.039 align:start position:0% and so on, 00:20:39.039 --> 00:20:41.990 align:start position:0% and so on, but<00:20:40.080> all<00:20:40.320> it<00:20:40.559> was<00:20:40.720> was<00:20:41.039> me<00:20:41.280> removing<00:20:41.760> my 00:20:41.990 --> 00:20:42.000 align:start position:0% but all it was was me removing my 00:20:42.000 --> 00:20:44.870 align:start position:0% but all it was was me removing my confusion<00:20:42.480> and<00:20:42.720> judgment<00:20:43.120> of<00:20:43.280> them<00:20:44.559> and<00:20:44.799> the 00:20:44.870 --> 00:20:44.880 align:start position:0% confusion and judgment of them and the 00:20:44.880 --> 00:20:47.270 align:start position:0% confusion and judgment of them and the and<00:20:44.960> and<00:20:45.600> the<00:20:45.919> situation<00:20:46.400> and<00:20:46.640> and<00:20:46.880> what<00:20:47.120> I'm 00:20:47.270 --> 00:20:47.280 align:start position:0% and and the situation and and what I'm 00:20:47.280 --> 00:20:49.750 align:start position:0% and and the situation and and what I'm observing. 00:20:49.750 --> 00:20:49.760 align:start position:0% observing. 00:20:49.760 --> 00:20:54.789 align:start position:0% observing. clarity, 00:20:54.789 --> 00:20:54.799 align:start position:0% 00:20:54.799 --> 00:20:57.669 align:start position:0% washing<00:20:55.280> away<00:20:55.600> all<00:20:55.919> the<00:20:56.159> judgments<00:20:57.440> of 00:20:57.669 --> 00:20:57.679 align:start position:0% washing away all the judgments of 00:20:57.679 --> 00:20:59.830 align:start position:0% washing away all the judgments of yourself<00:20:58.159> and<00:20:58.320> them. 00:20:59.830 --> 00:20:59.840 align:start position:0% yourself and them. 00:20:59.840 --> 00:21:01.830 align:start position:0% yourself and them. 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And<00:21:12.320> it<00:21:12.559> is<00:21:13.679> almost<00:21:14.159> magical<00:21:14.720> how<00:21:15.039> much<00:21:15.280> more 00:21:15.750 --> 00:21:15.760 align:start position:0% And it is almost magical how much more 00:21:15.760 --> 00:21:18.390 align:start position:0% And it is almost magical how much more effective<00:21:16.240> you<00:21:16.559> can<00:21:16.720> be 00:21:18.390 --> 00:21:18.400 align:start position:0% effective you can be 00:21:18.400 --> 00:21:20.870 align:start position:0% effective you can be with<00:21:18.720> this<00:21:18.880> clarity. 00:21:20.870 --> 00:21:20.880 align:start position:0% with this clarity. 00:21:20.880 --> 00:21:23.750 align:start position:0% with this clarity. But<00:21:21.120> it's<00:21:21.360> not<00:21:21.840> magic. 00:21:23.750 --> 00:21:23.760 align:start position:0% But it's not magic. 00:21:23.760 --> 00:21:26.230 align:start position:0% But it's not magic. 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It's a mystical journey we<00:21:26.480> all<00:21:26.640> go<00:21:26.799> on 00:21:30.390 --> 00:21:30.400 align:start position:0% 00:21:30.400 --> 00:21:35.830 align:start position:0% to<00:21:31.840> lose<00:21:32.240> touch<00:21:33.600> with<00:21:33.919> reality<00:21:35.120> and<00:21:35.440> therefore 00:21:35.830 --> 00:21:35.840 align:start position:0% to lose touch with reality and therefore 00:21:35.840 --> 00:21:38.870 align:start position:0% to lose touch with reality and therefore lose<00:21:36.080> touch<00:21:36.320> with<00:21:36.480> God 00:21:38.870 --> 00:21:38.880 align:start position:0% lose touch with God 00:21:38.880 --> 00:21:41.750 align:start position:0% lose touch with God and<00:21:39.120> then<00:21:39.360> to<00:21:39.520> be<00:21:39.679> called<00:21:40.000> to 00:21:41.750 --> 00:21:41.760 align:start position:0% and then to be called to 00:21:41.760 --> 00:21:43.909 align:start position:0% and then to be called to painfully 00:21:43.909 --> 00:21:43.919 align:start position:0% painfully 00:21:43.919 --> 00:21:45.909 align:start position:0% painfully reestablish<00:21:44.640> that<00:21:44.960> communication<00:21:45.520> and<00:21:45.760> that 00:21:45.909 --> 00:21:45.919 align:start position:0% reestablish that communication and that 00:21:45.919 --> 00:21:49.990 align:start position:0% reestablish that communication and that that<00:21:46.320> connection<00:21:46.640> with<00:21:46.960> reality<00:21:47.360> and<00:21:47.600> God. 00:21:49.990 --> 00:21:50.000 align:start position:0% that connection with reality and God. 00:21:50.000 --> 00:21:53.750 align:start position:0% that connection with reality and God. And<00:21:50.240> yes,<00:21:51.440> when<00:21:51.679> you<00:21:51.840> do<00:21:52.000> that<00:21:52.240> work, 00:21:53.750 --> 00:21:53.760 align:start position:0% And yes, when you do that work, 00:21:53.760 --> 00:21:56.470 align:start position:0% And yes, when you do that work, there<00:21:54.000> are<00:21:54.159> blessings 00:21:56.470 --> 00:21:56.480 align:start position:0% there are blessings 00:21:56.480 --> 00:21:58.710 align:start position:0% there are blessings and<00:21:56.880> clarity 00:21:58.710 --> 00:21:58.720 align:start position:0% and clarity 00:21:58.720 --> 00:22:06.149 align:start position:0% and clarity is<00:21:58.960> so<00:21:59.280> powerful. 00:22:06.149 --> 00:22:06.159 align:start position:0% 00:22:06.159 --> 00:22:07.830 align:start position:0% If<00:22:06.400> you<00:22:06.559> followed<00:22:06.799> me<00:22:06.960> for<00:22:07.200> the<00:22:07.360> first<00:22:07.520> couple 00:22:07.830 --> 00:22:07.840 align:start position:0% If you followed me for the first couple 00:22:07.840 --> 00:22:10.870 align:start position:0% If you followed me for the first couple videos,<00:22:08.880> thank<00:22:09.120> you. 00:22:10.870 --> 00:22:10.880 align:start position:0% videos, thank you. 00:22:10.880 --> 00:22:13.190 align:start position:0% videos, thank you. This<00:22:11.039> is<00:22:11.120> the<00:22:11.280> hard<00:22:11.520> part. 00:22:13.190 --> 00:22:13.200 align:start position:0% This is the hard part. 00:22:13.200 --> 00:22:15.750 align:start position:0% This is the hard part. Fear. 00:22:15.750 --> 00:22:15.760 align:start position:0% Fear. 00:22:15.760 --> 00:22:17.510 align:start position:0% Fear. Why<00:22:16.000> is<00:22:16.159> it<00:22:16.400> so<00:22:16.559> hard<00:22:16.720> to<00:22:16.880> receive<00:22:17.280> these 00:22:17.510 --> 00:22:17.520 align:start position:0% Why is it so hard to receive these 00:22:17.520 --> 00:22:19.510 align:start position:0% Why is it so hard to receive these messages? 00:22:19.510 --> 00:22:19.520 align:start position:0% messages? 00:22:19.520 --> 00:22:22.230 align:start position:0% messages? 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And when you develop 00:22:45.440 --> 00:22:47.909 align:start position:0% development. And when you develop language,<00:22:45.919> you<00:22:46.080> develop<00:22:46.960> this<00:22:47.280> model<00:22:47.520> of<00:22:47.679> the 00:22:47.909 --> 00:22:47.919 align:start position:0% language, you develop this model of the 00:22:47.919 --> 00:22:50.230 align:start position:0% language, you develop this model of the world. 00:22:50.230 --> 00:22:50.240 align:start position:0% world. 00:22:50.240 --> 00:22:53.110 align:start position:0% world. And<00:22:50.480> this<00:22:50.720> model<00:22:51.039> of<00:22:51.200> the<00:22:51.360> world<00:22:51.919> is<00:22:52.240> personal. 00:22:53.110 --> 00:22:53.120 align:start position:0% And this model of the world is personal. 00:22:53.120 --> 00:22:55.510 align:start position:0% And this model of the world is personal. 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What<00:24:18.159> is<00:24:18.400> this<00:24:18.880> trigger? 00:24:21.190 --> 00:24:21.200 align:start position:0% What is this trigger? 00:24:21.200 --> 00:24:24.630 align:start position:0% What is this trigger? 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Say a word, something someone<00:24:33.200> said. 00:24:34.710 --> 00:24:34.720 align:start position:0% someone said. 00:24:34.720 --> 00:24:36.549 align:start position:0% someone said. Right?<00:24:35.200> This<00:24:35.360> is<00:24:35.520> something<00:24:35.679> that<00:24:35.919> we<00:24:36.159> attach 00:24:36.549 --> 00:24:36.559 align:start position:0% Right? This is something that we attach 00:24:36.559 --> 00:24:41.029 align:start position:0% Right? This is something that we attach to<00:24:36.720> it.<00:24:37.840> When<00:24:38.080> the<00:24:38.240> word<00:24:38.480> comes<00:24:38.799> in<00:24:39.039> to<00:24:39.279> our<00:24:39.520> ear 00:24:41.029 --> 00:24:41.039 align:start position:0% to it. When the word comes in to our ear 00:24:41.039 --> 00:24:44.310 align:start position:0% to it. When the word comes in to our ear before<00:24:41.840> it<00:24:42.159> enters<00:24:42.480> our<00:24:42.720> mind, 00:24:44.310 --> 00:24:44.320 align:start position:0% before it enters our mind, 00:24:44.320 --> 00:24:49.430 align:start position:0% before it enters our mind, it<00:24:44.640> triggers<00:24:46.080> an<00:24:46.400> attachment<00:24:47.679> of<00:24:47.919> a<00:24:48.159> meaning, 00:24:49.430 --> 00:24:49.440 align:start position:0% it triggers an attachment of a meaning, 00:24:49.440 --> 00:24:52.710 align:start position:0% it triggers an attachment of a meaning, of<00:24:49.600> an<00:24:49.840> emotion,<00:24:50.400> of<00:24:50.559> a<00:24:50.799> judgment. 00:24:52.710 --> 00:24:52.720 align:start position:0% of an emotion, of a judgment. 00:24:52.720 --> 00:24:55.909 align:start position:0% of an emotion, of a judgment. Oh,<00:24:52.960> this<00:24:53.200> situation's<00:24:53.760> unsafe. 00:24:55.909 --> 00:24:55.919 align:start position:0% Oh, this situation's unsafe. 00:24:55.919 --> 00:24:59.990 align:start position:0% Oh, this situation's unsafe. Something<00:24:56.240> like<00:24:56.480> that.<00:24:57.760> And<00:24:57.919> it<00:24:58.159> hurts. 00:24:59.990 --> 00:25:00.000 align:start position:0% Something like that. And it hurts. 00:25:00.000 --> 00:25:03.269 align:start position:0% Something like that. And it hurts. 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I'm a redhead. I'm American. I 00:26:24.159 --> 00:26:25.750 align:start position:0% so tall. I'm a redhead. I'm American. I don't<00:26:24.240> know.<00:26:24.720> All<00:26:24.880> these<00:26:25.120> things<00:26:25.360> when<00:26:25.600> the 00:26:25.750 --> 00:26:25.760 align:start position:0% don't know. All these things when the 00:26:25.760 --> 00:26:27.830 align:start position:0% don't know. All these things when the labels<00:26:26.159> that<00:26:26.320> you<00:26:26.480> assign<00:26:26.880> yourself<00:26:27.279> when<00:26:27.440> you 00:26:27.830 --> 00:26:27.840 align:start position:0% labels that you assign yourself when you 00:26:27.840 --> 00:26:31.029 align:start position:0% labels that you assign yourself when you deconstruct<00:26:28.480> all<00:26:28.720> those 00:26:31.029 --> 00:26:31.039 align:start position:0% deconstruct all those 00:26:31.039 --> 00:26:33.669 align:start position:0% deconstruct all those is<00:26:31.279> scary<00:26:31.679> because<00:26:32.080> what's<00:26:32.400> left<00:26:32.960> this<00:26:33.279> was 00:26:33.669 --> 00:26:33.679 align:start position:0% is scary because what's left this was 00:26:33.679 --> 00:26:36.870 align:start position:0% is scary because what's left this was your<00:26:34.080> concept<00:26:34.480> of<00:26:34.799> yourself<00:26:35.120> that<00:26:35.440> you<00:26:35.679> formed 00:26:36.870 --> 00:26:36.880 align:start position:0% your concept of yourself that you formed 00:26:36.880 --> 00:26:38.630 align:start position:0% your concept of yourself that you formed when<00:26:37.120> you<00:26:37.360> built<00:26:37.600> your<00:26:37.840> model<00:26:38.080> of<00:26:38.320> the<00:26:38.480> world 00:26:38.630 --> 00:26:38.640 align:start position:0% when you built your model of the world 00:26:38.640 --> 00:26:42.870 align:start position:0% when you built your model of the world and<00:26:38.880> yourself<00:26:39.360> together 00:26:42.870 --> 00:26:42.880 align:start position:0% 00:26:42.880 --> 00:26:47.909 align:start position:0% and<00:26:43.120> it<00:26:43.520> feels<00:26:43.919> like<00:26:44.559> the<00:26:44.799> death<00:26:46.000> of<00:26:46.320> yourself. 00:26:47.909 --> 00:26:47.919 align:start position:0% and it feels like the death of yourself. 00:26:47.919 --> 00:26:50.630 align:start position:0% and it feels like the death of yourself. It<00:26:48.240> feels<00:26:48.640> existential. 00:26:50.630 --> 00:26:50.640 align:start position:0% It feels existential. 00:26:50.640 --> 00:26:52.549 align:start position:0% It feels existential. 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And<00:27:28.480> if<00:27:28.720> you<00:27:29.039> can<00:27:29.760> deconstruct<00:27:30.400> the<00:27:30.640> model, 00:27:32.549 --> 00:27:32.559 align:start position:0% And if you can deconstruct the model, 00:27:32.559 --> 00:27:34.549 align:start position:0% And if you can deconstruct the model, all<00:27:32.799> the<00:27:32.960> words,<00:27:33.520> the<00:27:33.679> stories<00:27:34.080> that<00:27:34.240> make<00:27:34.400> up 00:27:34.549 --> 00:27:34.559 align:start position:0% all the words, the stories that make up 00:27:34.559 --> 00:27:36.310 align:start position:0% all the words, the stories that make up the<00:27:34.799> model, 00:27:36.310 --> 00:27:36.320 align:start position:0% the model, 00:27:36.320 --> 00:27:39.830 align:start position:0% the model, you<00:27:36.559> can<00:27:36.640> align<00:27:36.960> yourself<00:27:37.200> with<00:27:37.520> reality. 00:27:39.830 --> 00:27:39.840 align:start position:0% you can align yourself with reality. 00:27:39.840 --> 00:27:46.870 align:start position:0% you can align yourself with reality. And<00:27:40.000> when<00:27:40.240> you're<00:27:40.320> aligned<00:27:40.720> with<00:27:40.960> reality, 00:27:46.870 --> 00:27:46.880 align:start position:0% 00:27:46.880 --> 00:27:49.510 align:start position:0% there's<00:27:47.200> less<00:27:47.440> pain 00:27:49.510 --> 00:27:49.520 align:start position:0% there's less pain 00:27:49.520 --> 00:27:52.789 align:start position:0% there's less pain because<00:27:50.080> your<00:27:50.480> perception<00:27:50.960> of<00:27:51.200> yourself 00:27:52.789 --> 00:27:52.799 align:start position:0% because your perception of yourself 00:27:52.799 --> 00:27:56.310 align:start position:0% because your perception of yourself and<00:27:53.039> the<00:27:53.200> things<00:27:53.360> that<00:27:53.600> are<00:27:53.679> going<00:27:53.919> on 00:27:56.310 --> 00:27:56.320 align:start position:0% and the things that are going on 00:27:56.320 --> 00:27:57.510 align:start position:0% and the things that are going on are<00:27:56.640> not<00:27:56.819> [clears throat] 00:27:57.510 --> 00:27:57.520 align:start position:0% are not [clears throat] 00:27:57.520 --> 00:27:59.830 align:start position:0% are not [clears throat] mismatched. 00:27:59.830 --> 00:27:59.840 align:start position:0% mismatched. 00:27:59.840 --> 00:28:01.350 align:start position:0% mismatched. And<00:28:00.080> furthermore,<00:28:00.559> you're<00:28:00.720> not<00:28:00.880> under<00:28:01.120> an 00:28:01.350 --> 00:28:01.360 align:start position:0% And furthermore, you're not under an 00:28:01.360 --> 00:28:04.870 align:start position:0% And furthermore, you're not under an illusion<00:28:01.679> about<00:28:01.919> how<00:28:02.159> things<00:28:02.399> should<00:28:02.720> be. 00:28:04.870 --> 00:28:04.880 align:start position:0% illusion about how things should be. 00:28:04.880 --> 00:28:10.470 align:start position:0% illusion about how things should be. That's<00:28:05.200> not<00:28:05.440> quite<00:28:05.840> how<00:28:06.080> it<00:28:06.240> is. 00:28:10.470 --> 00:28:10.480 align:start position:0% 00:28:10.480 --> 00:28:13.350 align:start position:0% So<00:28:10.720> all<00:28:10.880> that<00:28:11.039> unnecessary<00:28:11.760> pain<00:28:13.120> of 00:28:13.350 --> 00:28:13.360 align:start position:0% So all that unnecessary pain of 00:28:13.360 --> 00:28:16.230 align:start position:0% So all that unnecessary pain of resisting<00:28:13.919> reality 00:28:16.230 --> 00:28:16.240 align:start position:0% resisting reality 00:28:16.240 --> 00:28:17.830 align:start position:0% resisting reality that<00:28:16.559> all<00:28:16.799> of<00:28:16.880> us<00:28:17.039> have<00:28:17.279> to<00:28:17.440> go<00:28:17.520> through 00:28:17.830 --> 00:28:17.840 align:start position:0% that all of us have to go through 00:28:17.840 --> 00:28:21.190 align:start position:0% that all of us have to go through because<00:28:18.159> we<00:28:18.399> build<00:28:18.640> a<00:28:18.799> mental<00:28:19.120> model<00:28:20.480> as<00:28:20.799> as<00:28:21.039> a 00:28:21.190 --> 00:28:21.200 align:start position:0% because we build a mental model as as a 00:28:21.200 --> 00:28:23.590 align:start position:0% because we build a mental model as as a child. 00:28:23.590 --> 00:28:23.600 align:start position:0% child. 00:28:23.600 --> 00:28:28.310 align:start position:0% child. It<00:28:23.840> hurts. 00:28:28.310 --> 00:28:28.320 align:start position:0% 00:28:28.320 --> 00:28:31.190 align:start position:0% But<00:28:28.480> not<00:28:28.799> breaking<00:28:29.200> it<00:28:29.360> down<00:28:30.000> just<00:28:30.320> extends 00:28:31.190 --> 00:28:31.200 align:start position:0% But not breaking it down just extends 00:28:31.200 --> 00:28:33.830 align:start position:0% But not breaking it down just extends this<00:28:31.440> this<00:28:31.840> pain<00:28:32.080> and<00:28:32.320> suffering. 00:28:33.830 --> 00:28:33.840 align:start position:0% this this pain and suffering. 00:28:33.840 --> 00:28:37.510 align:start position:0% this this pain and suffering. So<00:28:34.000> yes,<00:28:34.240> it's<00:28:34.399> it's<00:28:35.600> always<00:28:36.000> painful. 00:28:37.510 --> 00:28:37.520 align:start position:0% So yes, it's it's always painful. 00:28:37.520 --> 00:28:42.710 align:start position:0% So yes, it's it's always painful. 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